Around 5am, daddy took his oxygen mask off, told us he was tired and he was gone within ten minutes. It was the longest ten minutes I have ever experienced. I sat there in the chair waiting, I would never hear daddy tells us his funny stories, shake his head because we did something dumb, or laugh because we told some joke, again and again. Never again would he tell us while he was eating a subway sandwich, that he could feel the pounds peel off, or about how he never had Christmas presents as a young boy, that's why they had tamales; so they would have something to unwrap. Or, what about how when he grew up, he had a different fork every time he ate some of his food; tortillas. He would never again be there for the grandkids baseball games, football games, award ceremonies, piano recitals, graduations, and all the family bar-b-ques or parties we had. He love to party, he loved to eat and drink, but most of all he loved his family ... and we loved him with everything we could give because he gave us twice back.
Now I visit him at the cemetery where his stone has a picture of momma and daddy on their wedding day, a forest scene on the bottom, and teddy there sitting with daddy.
We love you daddy, and miss you every day, but you’re in our hearts.... forever.
September 2009 Porterville Filipino Reunion
August 23, 2009 Birthday
June 1978 BBQ at Tulare Union
Pepsi-Cola 1974
8/9 Years Old
15-18 years old
Valley Cruiser BBQ 198??
Fresno State Graduation BBQ May 22, 2010
Thanksgiving 2009
Idaho July 4, 2010
Our last Christmas w/Daddy at my house 2009
January 1960
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